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It's Metafilter's 20th anniversary! To celebrate, scan some cats or help hostinghorny lets play Mefi! How can I engage in better conversation and avoid boredom? December 22, 4: How do I step up my game and engage people in conversation such that it is enjoyable and interesting for all involved?

I want amish online dating com avoid small talk. Please give me tips, tricks, mantras to make it better! I'm gearing up this week to see lots of people I only see sporadically, and I'd ror to get over the boredom hump. I often find solace in cooking or taking care of stuff because it means Bored just looking for conversation don't have to sit on the couch and nod with a fake smile bored just looking for conversation pretend to be paying attention.

I do listen more than talk, and try to ask questions but I guess I need better questions? The problems Tor see it are: I would like to be able to steer this type of conversation into something more sustainable. I know we can't talk politics or religion and probably not most of pop-culturebut what's left if not the weather?

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I've tried probing questions like, "Why? This is why I try to avoid pop-culture conversations. I've had too many people try to talk about something like a new band they like or a TV show they think I should watch, but when I tell girl cum eater I don't like it that much, they try to tell me why I'm wrong.

I don't tell them their taste sucks or anything, and sort of make fun of myself and bored just looking for conversation preferences, but short of lying which works but is tiring what else can I do? The thing is, I know I've got bored just looking for conversation tastes and can be quite a bore.

I purposefully do not bring up my hobbies because they're dull, especially to my family.

I feel like Eric Olthwaiteso I try to avoid anorak city. These people are unavoidable because they're family or very good friends of family.

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Short of cutting people off because it's intermindably dull, how can I make it better? Don't talk, listen. Let people talk and jusr a few questions.

Don't get drawn into any arguments. If people want to tell you about a TV show, ask them bored just looking for conversation about why they like it, and then bring up a similar show you like, or something they say that you also find interesting "Oh, you like the character development on Mad Men? I really like well written characters on TV shows too! I fr one thing I've learned about bordd interaction is that people are just looking to make a connection, and you don't always have to respond by telling the whole truth about how you feel.

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Someone says "I really like [pop culture thing]! What do you like about it? Have you experienced [other pop culture thing that you've at least heard of]? It sounds bored just looking for conversation. There's no graceful way to do it. Small-talk topics: Work "So russian girls picture do you do?

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I ran into him last month and his baby is cute! I find it very useful to have a couple of prepackaged general remarks about some of them that are too hard to explain - for example, my default response to the work question is bored just looking for conversation work on the internet! It's very modern and all. What do you do? Your hobbies may be dull, but it's nice to be able to have the equivalent of "I knit!

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My goal is to someday make a sweater for the lion at the zoo" for your hobby, which isn't boring and doesn't require boring further jyst but bismarck online classifieds the other person one more Thing They Know About You. Conversatiom is the point, really. And yes, to some extent these things are unavoidably dull.

That's why there's usually alcohol, or at least sugar. Maybe think of conversation more as a dance that leads to you talking about something interesting to both of you.

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Make a study of people. Ask specific followup questions. Brief, nonspecific questions like "why" or commands like, "please lookinng can sound abrupt and throw people off, leave them at a bored just looking for conversation as to what to say.

Ask questions that are easy to answer, like, "How long have you lived in [town]? You have to probe around a bit to find something you both like. Your questions here are coming off a little judgmental and fighty, like you assume sweet women looking real sex Colorado Springs aren't converastion to like anything you like, and you can't let something slide if you think they are wrong, which also doesn't lead to people opening up and feeling comfortable with you.

If, instead, borev open and curious about people, and try to find things you have in common, and just shrug and quickly move past points on which you disagree rather bored just looking for conversation trying to convince them you're right, you maybe find conversations more pleasant.

I mean, it's possible they're all dogmatic bores who only like terrible things, but the only juts common factor in your unsatisfying conversations is you, and you're the only person you can change in this situation, so treat it like a game or a role-playing exercise. Can you be the most pleasant conversational partner possible?

Conversation trick: Asking people "Why? As an overall strategy, the more stuff you have conversatio talk about, the less small-talk you need to conversahion. Read a bored just looking for conversation of things like The New Yorker or MetaFilter, listen to NPR, read lots of smart but general interest blogs -- basically do your best to pick up interesting takes on current events so that you can take the conversation deeper if one of those topics comes up.

Betty Draper is right: Develop your hobbies, volunteer, read The Week Magazine, read up on how to schmooze, read up on active listening. Talk. Interesting, fun-and-easy-to-be-with people do not go around needing to be right all the time. They where to meet someone you met online the other person gored more than they.

They don't let the bored just looking for conversation get in the way of a good story that their hostess is telling under her own roof. They ask follow-up questions.

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If you're really stuck in this company, in your place I would either find a way to emulate their interests and opinions, or restrict myself to talking about how the weather is different now from what it was like two days ago and how awful the drivers in State X are. I don't think you can "make it better.

It's awesome. You should watch Loiking Thing. You know what's more my cup of tea? That Other Thing. Have you seen That Other Thing? It doesn't sound like you really like these people all that much, so I'm not sure why congersation want you conversations with bored just looking for conversation to go beyond small talk.

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I once saw a couple of guys who didn't know each other that well carry on an animated conversation, because they convefsation both into celebrity gossip. I had always thought celeb gossip was dull and stupid, but after that I began to see it as a bonding tool.

You can also ask them about themselves - what they do, how they got into it, where they live, where they're from, what they majored in. Those conversations might be a little lookinb - not everyone likes Downton Abbey but everyone is from somewhere and lives somewhere and probably is working or looking for work or studying. There's nothing wrong with cooking. Honestly I prefer to bond with people while working local sluts in McComb Mississippi them and talking about whatever we are working on.

So maybe accept an offer of help in the kitchen, if you find bored just looking for conversation looknig. Thanks for the advice and some lines. It's all making me think even more about. Some of these people I do like but bored just looking for conversation feel really awkward. They're extremely nice people but with whom I don't feel comfortable sharing my normal sarcastic wit. I don't think I go for the bears cock Netherlands, "Your favourite TV show sucks" buzz kill, but I do know the "oh, huh" response doesn't work with some of my match sex Portland Maine members.

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